Friday, January 15, 2010

Reflections from time spent with family: 2

Since October, Jamie and I counted down the days to our moms’ arrival with such gusto that we made a paper-ring chain. Each day a link was ripped off, was a step closer to the warm embrace that would be upon us in Prague International Airport, terminal 2. We yearned to show our moms—and my brother; we can’t forget Jared—what our life for the past two years has been like. We wanted to have them taste the local flavors of pork and knedliky; I wanted to take Jared to a hockey game, where we would share a kielbasa (which we did) and be immersed in the flowering, artistic language of an upset sports fan; I wanted to show my mom a medieval Castle, where she would be able to not only imagine the fantasy of a ‘Fabio’ on a horse, but actually see his physical domain; and we wanted to walk with Debbie all over ‘Bohemian Kingdom come’ and see some of the fine works of the Czech painter Mucha, who has the ability to make any woman look as beautiful and light as sun coming through stained glass. However, most importantly, we wanted them all to meet our friends in Policka; seeing the people, not just the ‘sights’ from a tour book.

The trip started in Policka, where our days where awash in visits. In the morning, we would arise and walk into the city and around the fortress wall that encompasses the small center. For my mom, it was literally a fairytale. We shopped in some of the shops, bought some gingerbread houses in the bakery, went to the pottery store and bought some authentic, hand-made Czech mugs and bowls and then spent large chunks of our time in the art studio of my friend Vlada Gracias, where my mom bought almost EVERYTHING glass she could get her hands on—no, that’s an exaggeration.

We did most of our shopping in the morning, because the afternoon and evening saw us at the house of some friends for dinner, tea and glasses of wine. It was during these visits where our families got to ask personal questions about life, history and culture. I know that for both of our moms, these times spent in the houses of our Czech friends were the best, as it gave them a sense of the people of the country, the lifestyle and the opinions. My mom repeatedly said that the night she got to speak with Vlada and Lydia Hancil about the experiences under Communism was one that she will never forget. It was also in Policka where they were introduced to the Czech version of ‘hospitality’, which involves mysterious amounts of alcohol.

After about a week in Policka, we decided to spend the remaining seven days sight-seeing around the country. Our first path took us to the Southeast, where we stayed in the medieval city of Cesky Krumlov. Situated on a horseshoe-style bend of the Vltava river, Cesky Krumlov is built all within the natural ‘raindrop’ land formation that is formed from the curve (imagine the male end of a puzzle piece). There is a castle on the opposing cliff that overlooks the entire city. Since the land around Krumlov is rolling with hills, the city itself is built like a slowly rising mountain: the buildings closest to the banks of the river are the lowest in elevation, but as you climb up through the streets, you will eventually find that the church is at the apex, which is appropriate for all towns from this era, as the Church was seen as the central focus. What this gives us now, besides aching feet, is a barrage of twisting, turning alleyways, bridges and arches to walk under and breathtaking camera-friendly views. You can’t go anywhere in Cesky Krumlov without finding a beautiful Baroque building peeking out from behind the other splendidly dressed baroque structure right in front of your face. If you want romance, this is it.

We spent our days shopping and exploring, and by night we had, again, more wine, and played some Trivial Pursuit in the comfort of our hostel, which was another ‘first’ for our moms.

After Krumlov, we all loaded up in a train and embarked on the final ‘leg’ of our journey towards Prague. We didn’t get to spend too much time in the city, as Jamie and I had planned a few day trips: one to the Castle Karlstejn and the other to the “bone church” in Kutna Hora. Ignorant at the time that a large blizzard was fast approaching Central Europe, we continued with our plans.

Karlstejn was the day the snow began to fall, which did not bode well for our 2- mile walk up the side of a mountain to get the castle; however, the castle itself looked even more majestic with a white covering. To get to the fortification wall, you have to walk through a narrow village that sits within the crevice between to gargantuan hills—much like West Virginia. It would be easy to miss the Castle if one didn’t know where to look, as it is concealed so well. Yet, as we passed around a bend it showed itself from behind a tree line. My mom and I both stopped and looked up. The snowflakes were falling into our eyes, but there was just something enchanting about seeing flags being battered by the wind and twisting spires rising into gray clouds. We took a tour of the castle, which was great but absolutely FREEZING. In our hurry to descend down the hill, we stopped in a nice pub and indulged in a Czech favorite, Svickova.

The next day saw us on a train through the countryside. By this time, the snow was as deep as a half-a-foot. When we arrived at the stop in Kutna Hora, the conductor told us to step off. We were all confused, because we actually saw no platform, just mounds of snow and a small, wooden bench. He insisted that this was the stop. Consequently, much like jumping into a pool, we all fell from the train into a mound of snow that reached up to our shins. And from that point, we knew we had embarked on a day that would be full of surreal experiences.

Kutna Hora was once a very wealthy silver-mining town. They have many Cathedrals and churches, but there is one that stands out. On the outskirts of the city, there is a fairly small, almost chapel-like structure, surrounded by gravestones. In the 1500’s a nearly-blind monk was the caretaker of the chapel. No one really knows what motivated him to do what he did, but he had the idea to decorate the whole inside with human bones. And, he did just that. There is a bone chandelier, which claims to use every bone in the human body. There are literal pyramids of bones that must contain at least 15,000 human remains in one structure. There is a family crest, draperies, wall decorations and pillars all decorated in skulls and femurs. It is said that over 40,000 human remains were used in the decoration, and that most of them were victims of the Hussite Wars and the Black Plague. Needless to say, some of us loved the chance to see bones (Jared) and others, well, not so much (Pat).

The trip itself ended quietly, as we spent our last few nights taking in the atmosphere of Prague. Upon saying good-bye to Debbie, Pat and Jared, Jamie and I were once again left, alone, to reflect. The trip itself was a success in that we all had a wonderful time, but it was also important in the fact that it was a small way through which our families would be able to understand some of the struggles and stresses that have affected us in this past year-and-a-half. They now know more about Policka, our friends and about how we will be different upon our return in July and those are things that made these past two weeks, in my opinion, some of the most important since Jamie and I arrived in Policka.

** more pictures come soon!

Monday, January 4, 2010

Reflections from time spent with family: 1





It was really difficult for us to have time, or a computer, to post updates about the trip while it was actually happening. I know that for some of you, this might have been a little bit frustrating, and I'm sorry for that. In recapping the time spent with families, I am literally overwhelmed with what to write. I could give you a complete rundown from a day-to-day basis, or I could write about some of the highlights. I have yet to decide what exactly I will do, so in the mean time, I would like you to take a look at the trip reflections that both my mother (Pat) and my brother (Jared) wrote:

"It’s funny to look back on the past two weeks and think about my trip to the Czech Republic. Jamie and Jeremy continually ask me to pick out my favorite part of the trip. The truth is this can be a little bit difficult to do when you thoroughly enjoyed every part of it. From finally getting to see my brother and sister-in-law, to experiencing a completely different culture (something I love to do), I was constantly in a state of happiness.

I can honestly say that the trip has been the most worthwhile and fulfilling experience I have had, in many different ways: from the beginnings in Policka, where we met Jeremy and Jamie's friends; to splitting a kielbasa and watching a hockey game; to getting a free shot of Jameson's whiskey from his favorite waiter; and to playing trivial pursuit after a cold day of walking. It was fantastic.

The second part of the trip took us to hostels in Cesky Krumlov (A Picturesque, fairy-tale town) to beautiful, snow-covered Prague. This has been an incredible experience; I just hope that all of my wonderful memories remain for a life time.

I will miss my brother and Jamie, but I am looking forward to having other memories with them when they return back to the U.S."

-Jared

"Walk, walk, walk and then walk some more… In the US we drive cars, here they walk, ride trams, subways and trains. Thanks to people from hundreds o years ago, nothing is close and it all seems to on top of a mountain! Prague Castle and Cesky Krumlov—and the best of all, Karlstejn—are a 2 mile walk up a sheer hill side! But, they are all worth every step, and more.

Policka is beautiful and we absolutely loved the great friends Jeremy and Jamie have there. Vlasta and Mil let us stay in their home and showed us their photo history of their families. They were great. Jiri and Renata opened their home to us, and even though the men pretended to be exercising, there was a lot of beer and wine that night to eradicate any positive effects the fake exercise may have generated. Before we headed to Cesky Krumlov, we spent an evening with Vlada and Lydia, and I was fascinated by their stories of life under Communism. Jan and Anna and their family made us welcome in their home after church where we met more of the good friends they have here. Also, Jan’s drive over snow-covered roads to the outskirts and surroundings villages was wonderful.

After our time in Policka, we traveled to Cesky Krumlov and the ‘Krumlov House’-- my first experience in a hostel. Disney could not create a town as beautiful as this place—it is truly magical. Then, we were off to Prague and Sir Toby’s hostel. We stayed in a private room for 5, so my snoring didn’t bother any other strangers!

We went to many places that I feel I can’t describe them all here, but I loved each one.

And, finally, best of all, getting to spend time with Jeremy and Jamie after such a long time away is irreplaceable.

Our trip is over now and we leave tomorrow. We are sad to leave, but have had the time of our lives and will never forget our experiences and our wonderful trip to the Czech Republic."

- Pat

Saturday, January 2, 2010

Silvester in Prague (New Years Eve in Prague)



Happy New Year!

This year Jeremy and I rang in the new year in Prague, however, we got to do it with our family! My mom arrived on the 27th of December and Jeremy's mom and brother flew in on the 31st. And so the fun began. After rolling our luggage all over Prague to our hotel and relaxed a bit, we walked to the Old Town Square to see the festivities. Prague is a beautiful city, but at night it becomes a truely magical place. So ofcourse new years eve was even more spectacular since there were christmas lights everywhere as well as the occational firework.



There were a lot of people in Prague for new years eve, mostly foreigners in the typical tourist locations, so there was a sense of being a part of something big. In both the Old Town Square and Wencislas Square there was live music and people gathering to count down to the new year, which led to people setting off fireworks among large crowds of people. It was definalty an exciting way to bring in the new year, however there were times it looked more like a war zone than a new years celebration. I wouldn't want to be the person who had to clean up all the spent fireworks and broken glass the next day.

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Presents

I love receiving books as gifts. If a book is given to me as the first surprise to be unwrapped, that spells doom for all the other presents that sit, waiting, under the tree. When I unwrap a book, I must look it over and see the cover art; turning it over, I look at the author and his 'creds'; flipping over the cover, I read the chapter headings. This is my ritual. I MUST do it. It's just sad that it takes about 20 minutes. What normally happens is that I have to be poked and prodded to get back on the task of un-wrapping the other, less-inspiring gifts.

This Christmas was good for me, as I received a total of six books. I got no socks, no deodorant, no toothpaste, no wallet, just books. YES. Four of the six where in the Czech language, so I'm happy to say that this has been the first true 'bilingual' book binge I've had in my life. I requested some of the titles, but for the most part, they were a surprise. Two of the Czech books I received are 'classics' in their own right. Their titles are, "Babicka" by Bozena Nemcova and "Saturnin" by Zdenek (something). Babicka was written in the year 1855 and is considered to be the most famous Czech book ever written. It is a nostalgic story about life in the Czech countryside. Two interesting side-notes to the book, are that the setting takes place in the town of Litomysl, which is only about 10 miles away from Policka; and, that the book was written during a time when German was the offical and most powerful language in the Czech lands. One could say that Nemcova (ironically her last name means "German woman") is the Czech language's Chaucer.

Jamie's mom Debbie came to visit us bearing gifts. I got a couple thermal t-shirts and resting under the shirts, in the sparkley, gift bag was, yet again, another BOOK. This time, though, it was in English. She bought me Steinbeck's "Travels with Charlie", a book that documents John Steinbeck's travels around the United States with his k-9 companion. The book is a series of personal reflections where Steinbeck is attempting to get a feel for 'his country and his people'. In a small way, it is a story of falling back in love with America. He fights. He argues. He misunderstands. He gets frustrated. Ultimately, he is left confused. For me, it is a fitting place to start my 'trajectory' back home. So, as I make my descent back towards the landmass known as North America and towards the Appalachian hills cut by the Ohio River, I am hoping to take some advice from one of our greatest writers in how to fall back in love with 'home'.

My First Days In Policka


Greetings! Today is my third full day in Policka. This has been a great experience.
The town is really cute. Yesterday I was thinking, as we walked about 2 and 1/2 miles to Jitka's house, that I was glad we had to walk everywhere because I had the chance to really look and see everything around us. Walking also allowed us to decide to stop off at the cemetery and look around just because it looked interesting. Each day we have done a lot of walking to see different parts of the town and I am still surprised at how many people are out walking around. It is really refreshing to see more people than cars moving through the streets, and we have run into acquaintances of Jamie and Jeremy so I have met 'extra' people here.
We have spent time with the glass artist,Vlada, and also about 8 hours with Jitka and her parents Jan and Maria. Everyone has been so hospitable, serving good food and plenty of spirits(rum and beer and walnut liquor and apricot liquor and wine) and our conversations have been wonderful and funny! Jamie is at this moment cooking me an authentic Czech meal: Leak soup and fruit dumplings. After lunch we will visit a nearby town. I am looking forward to all the new people I will meet here and the new sites I will see!!!

Jamie's mom, Debbie

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Merry Christmas

Last year we had an extensive post about what a typical Czech Christmas looks like, so this year I'm not going to say much about it in fear of being repetative. However I would like to share with you what the month of December has felt like.

The first two weeks of the month were as usual: classes, meetings, and preparing for the upcoming events (Pokec, Christmas play, and the living nativity). However, it didn't really feel like Christmas was approaching. Then it started to snow :) It is really unbelievable how different a little snow can make a place feel. All of a sudden it looked like Decemeber, however, this did not mean Christmas; only that our family would be arriving soon.

Once I learned that our family would be coming to visit I made a countdown chain. Seventy-six days marked the start of the chain, but once it got into December it had gotten much shorter. December first marked day 26 until the arrival of my mom and day 30 for when Jeremy's mom and brother would arrive. Two weeks later, at a one of my English class Christmas parties, someone mentioned that there were only 8 days until Christmas. I was surprised, only 8 days?! But then I remembered that there were only 10 days until my mom would be here, so it made sense.

December 20th (Sunday) we got our Christmas tree, and this is when it felt like Christmas was near. Jeremy carried it home and nailed a stand on the bottom and there it was, our christmas tree. Of course I couldn't wait to decorate it, even though we had to clean our house. So while Jeremy was cleaning the hall and bathroom (and thinking I was cleaning the kitchen and living room...) I joyfully decorated our tree.

It's funny how happy this little tree makes me. I don't really care about the presents that are under it, only the memories it brings. Looking at it now I remember every Christmas eve waiting for our tradition to start (I suppose part of the tradition was the waiting itself.) After lunch we would take a shower and get ready for church. On the way to church we would listen to Christmas songs on the radio and look at the the lights on the houses we pasted. This was a special night for me, not only because we celebrated the birth of Jesus, but because it was a time when my whole family would go to church together-- this of course caused some minor conflicts regarding who got to sit next to Dad. After church we would go to my grandparents house for dinner. This was a fun time because all my cousins and aunts and uncles from my mom's side of the family would be there. We kids would eat our dinners as fast as we could so we could open presents, however we would always have to wait for the "grown-ups" to have coffee and a little chat with each other. My grandfather was notorious for giving us little tasks to make us wait longer (like telling us to stand on our head and spit wooden nickels...whatever that meant). And after rearranging my grandma's ceramic NOEL several times(LEON,NOLE,LONE)and pestering our parents to death, we could finally open our presents.

Christmas day (December 25) was what every kids waited for. We would wake our parents up at 6am and drag them downstairs to open presents (of course when my bother and I were older, it was our parents who woke us up at 9 or 10). This summer I watched some old home videos from Christmas and it's so funny how excited we were about all the presents. There is one video where my brother is standing by the tree with big eyes whispering "wow" over and over again. After opening our presents, eating breakfast and putting our nice clothing back on, we would go to see my Dad's side of the family. Each year Christmas was at a different house, but everyone was there so it didn't matter. I rememeber really liking Christmas at my cousins Matthew and Jonathan's house because there was a big playroom downstairs away from the grownups where we could do whatever we wanted.

So for me Christmas ment seeing my whole family within two days, which is probably one of the reasons that we are looking forward to seeing our moms so much.

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Reflection

Christmas arrived quicker than I expected. There wasn't really much of a build-up to the holiday this year, as there was last year. I'm sure some of the reason for this is because I am really looking forward to the weeks AFTER the holiday, as that marks the time when both my mom and brother, and Jamie's mom will be in Policka visiting.

Many times throughout the weeks, I find myself in thought and reflection about the upcoming seven months. Some days, I am ready to leave; I think that I've spent too much time away from home, and my job is becoming way too monotonous. However, there are those times-- and there are plenty-- when I am in the company of friends, maybe in pub or in a living room, where we are speaking Czech, laughing, sharing stories and even reminiscing about our first impressions of each other. When I think back to last year and all the work and study that went into understanding the Czech culture, language and way of life, I am left with a sense of accomplishment for what Jamie and I have been able to do in only 18 months. Yet, just when I feel that I have finally gotten comfortable in my life setting, I am reminded that I must leave and that all is fleeting, to a degree.

Last week, I looked through old pictures of the Policka congregation. I saw so many faces that were familiar, albeit, a little younger and less creased. The pictures were of youth retreats in Slovakia; Sunday trips to small, Moravian villages; and Christmas plays acted out 10 years ago. Jamie and I have only been a part of this congregation for a year and a half; we are just a small marker in the time line of Policka's history. Those in the church will be here long after we have left.

When Jamie and I leave, I'm sure that it will be very difficult for us and for those we have grown close to. Usually, when most people have lived through and experienced life together, there is a tendency to make large 'promises' and assurances that one day, in the far future, "We will see each other again." I don't want to do that. The cold-hard reality of our situation here is that we very well might not see many of our Czech friends again. Yes, we will speak through skype and email, every once and a while, but the day-to-day interaction of laughing, talking, being vulnerable and sharing ideas will not be as easy as it is here. I guess, there will come a time when my feelings for Policka, and the Czechs, will slowly, but surely, weaken into a memory from my 'younger years'.

I am often left wondering about what I will take from these two years in Policka. I remember that when my parents or friends would travel, they would bring back with them some kind of trinket, or clothing from an exotic local; however, they were usually only there for a few months, maximum. Yes, I could take a few pictures and traditional Czech mementos that remind of the country, but I want something more cerebral, more long-lasting; I want Policka to be woven into the fabric of who I am, even when the experiences here become blurry and vague. Of course, I could take the mindset that has been gained and some of the habits that I've become accustomed to, but those usually fall by the wayside, when the pulse of living, back at home, makes holding onto the newly-acquired lifestyle futile and frustrating (also, I'm not so sure some of the habits here are very good--lack of common courtesy being one). I don't really know what it is yet that I'm going to bring back, but I hope that it is the language; even though, that will be hard to maintain once I leave the border. I also want to always keep American 'cultural wars' in perspective in relation to the world.
It should be interesting...

I don't know, maybe all I'll have left from Policka is the appreciation of a good beer and a lovely, red wine, and I guess that would be okay in my book as well.

Sorry for the vagueness of this post; I feel like most of the time I'm talking around the 'real' idea, which I believe is a consequence of not fully comprehending what exactly is in store for me this summer, and what has happened to me in Policka.